those who are willing to pursue financial or career security while putting emotional security at risk are seen as wise, well-adjusted, and mature. Those who are willing to pursue emotional security while putting financial or career security at risk are seen as immature, overdependent, and incompetent.
This is pure capitalist ideology. Property is real and essential; personhood is ephemeral and exchangeable. You can identify a would-be capitalist by the fact that they are willing to live an emotionally empty, meaningless husk of a life in order to continue to work crap-average jobs that advance a crap-average career.