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Fun and “Type A”  §

To all the “Type A” personalities out there:

If you’re doing something scripted, you’re not having “fun.”

Fun is, by definition, unscripted, unpredictable, and spontaneous.

If everything is going very well according to a detailed plan, you may be pleased with your organizational skills, relieved at an absence of problems, gratified by the correctness and foresight of your planning, and any number of other good things—but you are not having fun.

If you are “Type A” and this makes no sense to you, you have either (a) forgotten how to have fun, or (b) never experienced fun in the first place.

Psychological castration  §

1. Stop caring.

2. Realize that women need their problems. Don’t solve them. Solve a woman’s problem and she’ll adopt you as the problem in replacement. Don’t stoop; let her stew. Care in a way, but not so much that it gets you down.

3. Be autonomous and be yourself.

4. Fuck it.